Sunday, October 5, 2008

两个朋友

阿拉伯传说中有两个朋友在沙漠中旅行,在旅途中的某点他们吵架了,一个还给了另外一个一记耳光。被打的觉得受辱,一言不语,在沙子上写下:"今天我的好朋友打了我一巴掌。"他们继续往前走。直到到了沃野,他们就决定停下。被打巴掌的那位差点淹死,幸好被朋友救起来了。被救起後,他拿了一把小剑在石头上刻了:"今天我的好朋友救了我一命。"

一旁好奇的朋友问说:为什麽我打了你以後,你要写在沙子上,而现在要刻在石头上呢?
另个笑笑的回答说:当被一个朋友伤害时 , 要写在易忘的地方 , 风会负责抹去它;相反的如果被帮助 , 我们要把它刻在心里的深处 , 那里任何风都不能抹灭它。
朋友的相处伤害往往是无心的,帮助却是真心的,忘记那些无心的伤害;铭记那些对你真心帮助,你会发现这世上你有很多真心的朋友…


俗语说:你只需要花一分钟注意到一个人;一小时内变成朋友:一天让你爱上他;一但真心爱上 . . .你却需要花上一生的时间将他遗忘,直至喝下那孟婆汤…

你是否有一点启示呢?在日常生活中,就算最要好的朋友也会有磨擦,我们也许会因这些磨擦而分开。但每当夜阑人静时,我们望向星空,总会看到过去美好回忆。不知为何,一些锁碎的回忆,却为我寂寞的心灵带来无限的震撼!就是这感觉,令我更明白你对我的重要!在此,我希望你能更珍惜你的朋友。

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Can I borrow $25?

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year
old son waiting for him at the door.

SON: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?'

DAD: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the man.

SON: 'Daddy, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?'
the
man said angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an
hour?'

DAD: 'If you must know, I make $50 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Daddy, may I please borrow $25?'

The father was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can
borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you
march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you
are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish
frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's
questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down , and started to
think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $25.00 and
he really didn't ask for money very often The man went to the door of
the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' He asked.

'No daddy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the
man.
'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's
the
$25 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you daddy!' he
yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up
bills.

The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his
father.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the father
grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy
replied.

'Daddy, I have $50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home
early tomorrow. I would like to

have dinner with you.'

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he
begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We
should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some
time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do
remember to share that $50 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily
replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave
behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.

Well, this story really touches my heart, deeply indeed..
I hope everyone in the world would always think of your beloved ones, just spending a little of time with them would never get yourself into trouble or killed..

Friday, September 19, 2008

Oh yeah, final exam has finally come to an end.. All things which burdened me most of the time before are finally gone.. I totally feel relaxed now.. When I even accidentally recall those moments during exam week, I will just be like.. hmm.. thinking that was so incredible! I couldn't imagine how I was able to strive for and cope with the exam.. However that was just what I gotta pay for being lazy.. xD If I were working hard before the exam, I wouldn't fall into such an "extreme" situation which had led me to a life of hell during exam weeks.. haha..

Well, now the exam was just over.. I can do whatever now.. I will do all things which I could not do during the exam.. Just like? Dota! Sleeping! MSN-ing and many more! I was just suffering from loads of burdens as though I gotta stay in hell for punishments.. Well, now I wouldn't wanna think of the results of final exam that I would get afterwards.. That ain't making me feel well.. LoLx I should think of the things that I can do now in order to make me totally enjoy my three-month holiday! xD

Hmm, I ain't sure what I wanna do during holidays yet.. Perhaps I will be looking for a job out there.. Any job that probably suits me will do.. = = Hope so..

Saturday, May 24, 2008

Wooo holidays have finally come to an end..

Foundation has come to an end.. I was then having my one-month holiday after that.. I was playing online games, enjoying shows on television, chit-chatting with friends and many more.. xD I didn't even touch anything which is relevant to my studies.. But, i was reading a book named "The Five Love Languages" which I borrowed it from my friend.. I haven't finished reading it yet.. Quite a meaningful book with useful contents in it.. I ain't really a fellow who likes to read books.. When my friend recommends this book to me, I was quite reluctant to accept it.. But as a token of his regard, I finally agreed to read it as I wonder how useful and meaningful this book is.. I decided to check it out during my holidays.. I was thinking like that.. But, when holidays finally came, I was just indulging in games after all.. Haha! Feel like killing myself.. =P I just started reading it few days ago.. I hope I could finish it as soon as possible..


Btw, my degree will strat 2morrow.. My feeling is so complicated now.. I'm wondering what kinda obstacles and hardships are waiting for me to encounter out there.. I hope everything would be fine in the future.. However, people said we'll only get stronger and stronger if we are always going across hindrances.. We've gotta strive for success all the time.. Nothing is just damn easy to be accomplished in the world, especially a success of your whole life.. No matter how, I will still need to work hard and enjoy my studies.. ^o^ Working outside will even be tougher than studying in university.. This is what those people working outside always said.. LOL

I checked my timetable, I felt really shocked and scared when I stared at my timetable.. It's soooo compact!! God bless me.. @.@

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Throughout my founation life in University Tunku Abdul Rahman....

Finally, the last day of foundation has come.. I will definitely miss you all! Though we will be apart afield soon, but i believe our heart will always stay 2gether.. =)
I still remember, when I first came in the class on the first day, everyone seemed so strange to me.. But when time elapsed, we got closer and closer..
We were hanging out 2gether.. =)
We were watching movies 2gether.. =D
We were studying overnight for final exam at kfc 2gether.. xD
We were eating supper 2gether.. =P
We were doing so many many many things 2gether..! =O
I won't forget these things that we have done 2gether.. The moments that we have, we shared, I won't forget eternally.. They will always be kept in my heart.. A deep site in my heart.. Locked and never stolen..
There were happy moments, and unhappy moments though..
I have been undergoing a lot of things in my foundation life..
We might have been so unhappy and angry with each other even to a debate or fight.. However, once a friend, forever a friend.. Nothing would be an obstacle to our friendship..
I hereby would like to thank those who consoled me when I was sad, who accompanied me when I was alone, who cheered me up when I was down, who lent me a hand when I was in trouble.. Thank you..
I am really proud of being a part of te2.. Sincerely, I shall never forget te2..!
It was a tutorial group full of happiness and craziness.. I did enjoy being in this group..
I miss te2, I miss the lecturers, I miss the moments we have had 2gether! >o<
Anyway, we still have to fight for our future..
We can't just stick like this in foundation..
We have to keep going with our path and goals that we have set for ourselves..
I believe we will definitely get to be 2gether again.. Once again like last time.. =)
Dear all my te2 friends and buddies, Go Go Jia You~!!!!
All the best in your degree life and your future!
Friendship forever~

礼拜五那天,是我们te2在一起最快乐的时光。我们去了唱k。我们玩得真的很颠,完完全全疯狂了起来。希望有机会,我们能够再次相约出来,像那样疯狂的唱个过瘾,玩个过瘾!


Crazy and Happy te2~!!!!!! =P

Me and Joanne

Me and Sin Man

Me and Wan Chying

More photos will be uploaded soon once i got them from my friend~ =P

Saturday, March 29, 2008

友谊是人生中的无价之宝,是人生中的一盏明灯,是人生中的灿烂之花。让我们用真诚播种友谊,用热情和理解让这人生中神圣的友谊之花永远盛开。


想想下……又有多少人能够真正理解呢?又有多少人能够真正做到呢?
我只是想对某人说…
千万别叫我放弃!就是因为不肯放弃,我受的伤害会更痛更伤!但是,我认为是值得的。

Saturday, March 22, 2008

*** Meaningful Quotes ***

Just now my friend taught me how to download and manage the msn shell things. He sent me a lot of quotes while I was downloading the things. I found some of them really interesting and meaningful. They even touched my heart! Really meaningful, so I'm here to share them with u guys. ^O^

Read carefully and patiently, they could teach u many things. Trust me.. However, some of them are quite funny and kinda....does nt make sense one... xD

These are which I found them quite meaningful...
Some of them actually represent my life and feeling.. But i ain't gonna tell which ones they are.. xD

自以为可以预知天气,可是气象预报不准;自以为可以控制自己的心情,可是我的心情很多时候是被别人左右的。

结束一件事或一段感情,有时比开始要难。我能够理解日久生情和恋恋不舍,但我不能理解的是,为什么明知道错了,还不去改,不是你的,为什么还不放弃?知错就改,是一个人有力量、有决心的标志,更是一个人有希望,有成就的根本。其实生活很简单:东西丢了,找一下,实在找不到,就忘了它,去找下一个;摔倒了,爬起来,继续走。不能尽快结束,就不能尽快开始;不很好的结束,就不能更好的开始。

有人帮你,是你的幸运;无人帮你,是公正的命运;没有人该为你做什么,因为生命是你自己的,你得为自己负责。

当眼泪流下来,才知道,分开也是另一种明白...

即使全世界都背叛你:我也会为你背叛全世界!

人的价值,在遭受诱惑的一瞬间被决定。

跟谁过不去都是跟自己过不去。

成长,意味着面对越来越多的无奈。

你最痛苦的时候,窗外有小鸟在快乐地歌唱;你最快乐的时候,有人正受着病魔的折磨,和死亡搏斗,挣扎。世界总是一样的,只是我们的心情和遭遇不一样而已。

使自己幸福比使别人痛苦更显出你的能耐。

哭,并不代表我屈服;退一步,并不象征我认输; 放手,并不表示我放弃;微笑,并不意味我快乐!

幸福在心中,不在别人眼中。

当你感到悲哀痛苦时,最好是去学些什么东西。学习会使你永远立于不败之地。

再长的路,一步步也能走完,再短的路,不迈开双脚也无法到达。

对待金钱,既要像朋友,有要像陌生人。如果因金钱而折磨自己,人生就会狭隘,如果用一种“坦然”心态待之,那么你的人生本身就已经拥有金钱!

相对于"爱",不是"憎恨",而是"莫不关心"。

看过最美丽的焰火才明白平淡更长久一点,流过最苦的眼泪才珍惜每一份甜蜜,圆过最傻的盟约才会相信真情永远不变!

很多我们以为一辈子都不会忘记的事情,就在我们念念不忘的日子里,被我们遗忘了。

这世上最累的事情,莫过于眼睁睁看着自己的心碎了,还得自己动手把它粘起来。

宁可自己去原谅别人,莫让别人来原谅你。

每一种创伤,都是一种成熟。

你的幸福,我来建筑;你的糊涂,我来弥补;你的贪图,我来满足;你的任性,我来让步;爱你,非我莫属。

While these are which I found them quite senseless and funny.. But some of them are meaningful one.. Not that senseless.. xD

只要你是天鹅蛋,就是生在养鸡场里也没有什么关系。

一次我和同学们出去吃早饭,一同学正在吃着间,一条狗跑到他面前摇尾巴,他望了那条狗半天,说了句暴强的话:"叫声爸,我就给你吃." 

美女说:“人为我死,我为鸟亡!”

男人是突然顿悟的,女人是慢慢觉悟的。

老板只能给你一个位置,不能给你一个未来。

骑白马的不一定是王子,他可能是唐僧;带翅膀的也不一定是天使,那是鸟人。

好人与坏人区别在于,一个只是去想,另一又想又做!!

一个消化不良的病人向医生抱怨:我近来很不正常,吃什么拉什么,吃黄瓜拉黄瓜,吃西瓜拉西瓜,怎样才能恢复正常呢?医生沉默片刻,那你只能吃屎了。

经理对我说:年轻人,好好工作,房子会有的车会有的,只不过不是你的。

长的丑没有错,但靠化妆品壮胆跑到大街上吓人可就不对了!

Friday, March 21, 2008

** Crapz **

Ahh I'm still struggling whether I should post my things in English language or in chinese.. Nvm, jz make it turn-by-turn.. xD Or depends on my mood.. LOL

Haha.. Anyway, I jz wanna share with u all about my life for today.. Not really special.. I have had the practical assessment for webpage design.. Before having the assessment, I was feeling sooo nervous.. I have been suffering for the whole morning to figure out wuds the stuff that tutor might be questioning afterwards.. Howeva, when I saw the instructions given by him, I felt a little bit shocked.. The test was easier than I expected.. Haha.. And, I got full marks for it.. I ain't showing off or being haughty here.. Believe me..! Nevertheless, I started worrying about the 2nd assessment after that.. Swt la..! Take it easy pls.. >.<

One of my friends complained that she could not get full marks in the assessment.. Haha.. Jz a careless mistake la.. Eventually the tutor deducted her marks.. But it can be considered very high to many others ade.. Wakaka.. Dun be greedy oh.. ^^ Haha.. It is better if i dun talk too much, or else she'd whack me off.. xD

Thursday, March 20, 2008

** 我滴世界 **

终于可以拥有自己的一个部落格了。其实也不算是啦,之前在 friendster 我也有一个。但很奇怪的,我觉得这里的比较有趣,不是吗?哈哈!说真的,我成立这个部落格的真正目的并不是想得到数不尽的回应,冷冷清清的也无所谓。我只是想把我自己的心声发泄在这里。 ^O^

第一个贴里,最想写的当然是关于我自己。哈哈!若太罗嗦,请见谅!那……我开始咯!我呢,算是一个还未真正踏入社会的男孩。思想…也许还没那么成熟。不大会耍心机,因此常遭到伤害。但我很乐观,我一直都希望它们会令我更加坚强!在朋友眼里,我一直都是“小孩子”,有时候我觉得很有趣。哈哈!我也很希望自己真的真的仍是一个小孩子。这样一来,我就不必为周围所发生的事情而担心,伤心,甚至被伤害!但,事实是无法改变的。因为,我必须成长。其实啊,我一直都是在别人眼前嘻嘻哈哈的,因为我不喜欢把自己不快乐的一面给呈现出来。我只想我的朋友快快乐乐,一起愉快地过日子。然而,这是很难实现的。哈哈!

谈了那么多关于我内心世界的那么多“东东”,感觉好像有点闷滴。哈哈!那么,就聊下我的学业吧!我啊,其实不是那些真正会读书的“天才”。实际上来说,我的学业应该只是还好而已,只是我不晓得为何有那么多人说我很厉害。汗……在我还是小学生的时候,我的成绩是非常非常的烂,还烂过烂苹果!哈哈!开始进步的那一刻,应该是在 form four 吧。那时的我,才开始领悟学业的重要性。不算迟吧? =.= 过后,我就一直的努力啊努力啊。最后,终于给我在 SPM 里获得十粒 A 。哈哈!所以啊,结论只有一个。在 form four 之前,你们都不用努力的!!哈哈哈!这样也可以拿到十粒 A 。开玩笑的啦!别拿自己的前途玩哦……

好啦,打了那么久,手有点酸了。那么,下次我再写吧!再见…… ^O^